Make Love Stay

Tough to do, isn’t it. But rest assured, it can be done. To love is just a matter of choice, and it is always a better option than not to love, or to hate. We will always have someone to love if we choose to love, and our love for that special someone will always be there if we want it to be there. Love will not escape from us unless we let it slip by not loving anymore. In one sense, we love for our own sake, not for our lover’s sake. To love is really a healthy thing to do.

There is really no such thing as “breaking up,” for after a relationship happens, no matter how brief or bitter it is, it becomes a part of our being and is integrated into our lives one way or another. We can choose to love or to hate the ones who have left us or broken our hearts, but the former is always a better option. By doing so, the ones we used to love, or to like, will become a blessing rather than a curse to our lives, and when we think about the good times we used to share, there will be joy, not sorrow. “So there will be laughter when we remember…”

To love is a lot more productive and life-affirming than to hate. One produces life, and the other death. The choice is easy.